The movie/book "The Secret" helped me better understand the Law of attraction.
http://www.thesecret.tv/products/the-secret-book/
http://www.thesecret.tv/products/the-secret-film-dvd/
The movie is also on Netflix. I highly recommend watching it and letting your life unfold before your eyes.
The law of attraction, along with sweat equity, research and soul searching have brought us abundance, a tiny house on wheels, a healed marriage, a healthy child, health and joy. Of course there is always room to grow, but we are so thankful for this understanding of the law of attraction.
More great videos here:
http://youtu.be/p8GY8rtC7rk
http://youtu.be/DAXnyegGmnU
Another way that I have slowly healed is through frequency therapy, focusing on healing each chakra. There are many videos on Youtube as well as Itunes and CD's to buy on Amazon, etc.
Here are some examples:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MvmAYt9KtAM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ARoih8HTPGw
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T9rw4KNK2w4
These are just some things that worked for me. Of course we are all on our own journey and will get there using different paths, but hopefully this helps someone come to the next turn in the road.